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Serious Scam Warning!

November 3rd, 2009

This warning has been copied from http://punternet.com/forum/showthread.php?t=23718

 

Received this from lady who wishes to remain anonymous. It doesn’t qualify as a dangerous punter warning which is why it is on this board. Other sites are welcome to copy.

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Scam Alert to all girls.
ESPECIALLY new to the industry or in a vulnerable position.

2pm got a call from a guy claiming to work for an agency.
Said his name was Michael
This guy was very well spoken used both flattery and displayed a extensive use of the English language.
He had no accent that I could make out, but did speak very posh, every word was spoken properly with full pronunciation .

Said that the agency he worked for supplied girls to rich businessmen and musicians, etc.
And that the agency was looking for a few girls like myself to come on board and work with them.
Security was tight because these clients did not want kiss and tell stories in the newspaper.
Also said that the client doesn’t pay the girl the agency does.
Clients pay up to and over 100,000 a year membership to this agency, and they are selective.
All clients are vetted and must submit a medical check every quarter.
All girls had to have an interview.

When asked how the girls got paid. He said, An agent from the company would meet the girl before the job to hand over her cash.
BUT, That was after you were a part of the company, the interview you got paid afterward and before your first job.
You were to meet said financial agent on the top floor of the hotel so as to not attract attention in the lobby.

When asked how much the girls got paid, he replied anywhere from £500 to £30,000 a night.

Was then told that it was not a scam and also that they would get a girl from the agency to call and chat .

2:30pm – call comes in from a girl named Bonnie, who claimed to work for this agency.
This girl had an American/Canadian accent and claimed she was from Vancouver.
Now All questions were answered in a methodical manner she was very good this woman.
Claimed to be on tour with a band at present .
Stated that again all clients submitted a medical if any were found to have anything their membership to this place was revoked.
There were 3 categories 1st was normal everything covered which you were paid £500 – £1,000 for the hour depending.
2nd was A level which meant you would do standard stuff but all unprotected. And were paid up to £3,000 per hour.
3rd was A+1 and that meant anything went, such as watersports on you, client tying you up, Domination. Double penetration. Etc but this was paid £5,000 per hour.

Overnight appointments lasted 6 hours that gave you a grand total of £30,000 in a night.

She had never had any problems with clients no violent punters and NO DRUGS either her or her clients.

Worked when she wanted , could either work at home or travel internationally

Asked about her interview to which she said… she had three male escorts in a hotel room and all of them had her at the same time. It was something of a speciality of hers.

ALL SEX AT THE INTERVIEW WAS UNPROTECTED.

As was sex with the client,

The interview was paid for by the company both for your time at your normal rates and for the male escorts time.
(They have both on staff)

So hangs up after chatting with bonnie and waits for her to contact them and let them know your ok with things.

3pm gets a call from another male with the company asking about services .
This male had a very distinct Irish accent , and was just there to get what services you were comfortable doing and what you weren’t.
Asks to speak to another escort as was allowed to talk to as many as I wanted.
Requests a London based escort as living in the UK want to know from a UK based escort.
No problem finishes taking details and hangs up.

3:15pm phone rings and a UK based escort tells me similar things to the first.
Did sound a bit drugged up, and did mention that before she worked for this company she had a profile on adult work.

3:30 pm Michael calls back again explains everything again and wants to know if I am satisfied that this is not a scam.
Then asks how soon did I want to work, and could I do an appointment that evening.
Agrees and starts to get ready.
Calls to confirm that I am ok to do interview and job after it.. Then says client will pay for 2 hours but wants a submissive secretary. To be paid at £5000 per hour so £10,000 total

Given two lines that client want saying.
I would do anything MR x to get my job back.
And I want your cock in my mouth and whatever comes out I want you to watch me swallow.
These two lines were to be said at both interview and to the client.
The interview was to be a mock run of the actual event
Gets called every 20 mins to check how things are coming.

5pm ready and in car on way to Heathrow airport only then do I get told the destination
Holiday Inn at junction 4 at Heathrow airport.
Gets there at 8pm due to traffic.

Male escort met on 6th floor gets to room, forgo saying lines immediately and ask a few questions.
Was told by him that he got into it through a friend and that he went through the whole process.

Gets down to the appointment.
Was filmed giving a BJ for about 5mins.

Then was put on the bed and mouthfucked till I was sick.
He was told to stop several times which he did but went straight back to it after a few mins.
Throat was really sore and tonsils were displaced.
Had unprotected vaginal sex for about 2 mins maybe 6/8 thrusts in total
Then back to mouth fucking.
Came in mouth.
Spat in mouth several times not sure why really (managed to roll it off the tongue
Then proceeded to piss into my mouth.

The whole thing lasted 25 mins if that.
Washed up a little and he went his way after a little chat and I went to top floor to collect my money for that job and the next.

Sat on 10th floor for 15mins. Before phone rang at 8:45 Michael again, was everything ok etc,
Guy with money should be on his way up now and then call cuts out.

No more calls after that waited 15 more mins just to be sure.
Paid for parking and left.

Called police on way home.

CPS won’t prosecute because of those two lines that were said, they have me, and all defence has to say was those lines were me consenting.

Are looking into the scam though.

All was done from withheld numbers.

I received the following email and would like to share it with you, as it has some very important information regarding our industry and new proposed laws that may come into effect.  You may be motivated enough to do as the sender asks, and write to the Lords and your local politicians.

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 There has been much said by Labour and the media about trafficking and sex work. Figures of 4,000 plus have been mentined as the likely number in the UK who are trafficked. Analysis of the police Pentameter raids shows this high number is an exaggeration. Take a look at the Guardian articles, a paper that has been keen to criminalize sex work and clients.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2009/oct/20/government-trafficking-enquiry-fails
 http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2009/oct/20/trafficking-numbers-women-exaggerated
 
You may also want to read the ECP statement after this news came out out yesterday. Its in this blog
 
http://www.elrondmiddleengland.co.uk/2009/10/trafficking-for-sexual-services-is.html
 
Finally its still time to make that last minute bid to email someone in the Lords who will be debating prostitution in the next few days. Here is a list of email addresses and sample letter. You may wish to add the bit about the Guardian newspaper article as well. There is a word document, which I cannot attach to this email. It will be on my blog.

 http://www.elrondmiddleengland.co.uk/2009/10/briefing-on-policing-and-crime-bill.html
 
 
English Collective of Prostitutes
 
PO Box 287 London NW6 5QU Tel: 020 7482 2496 Fax: 020 7209 4761
 
ecp@allwomencount.net, www.prostitutescollective.net
 
  
Dear Friends,
  
The Policing and Crime is due to be debated in Committee in the House of Lords tomorrow although the clauses on prostitution may not come up for two weeks. We?ll keep you informed as we find out details.  
 
Many of you have written before, expressing your opposition. Politicians claim to be targeting ?demand? i.e. clients. They hide that it is mainly women, prostitute women, who will bear the brunt of the new measures, and that by increasing criminalisation they undermine safety. None of us want to see another Ipswich. Now is the time to write again. 
  
We enclose below:
 
1. A statement for organisations to sign. Please ask any groups or organisations you are part of or know to add their name to the prestigious list of signatures. You may need to pursue people vigorously as time is short. Please send back signatures to us (ecp@allwomencount.net) as soon as you get them.
 
2. A model letter for individuals where you can make your particular case against these measures. Many people have expressed outrage that it is women in government who call themselves feminists who are attacking other women in this way. Please copy any letter you write to us at ecp@allwomencount.net.
 
 
The attached briefing gives more detail. 
 
 
 
Safety YES, victimisation NO.
 
 
 
Many thanks,
 
 
 
Cari Mitchell
 
 
 
1. STATEMENT FOR ORGANISATIONS TO SIGN ? ADD YOUR ORGANISATION BELOW
 
Impact of the Policing and Crime Bill
 on the health and safety of sex workers
 
 
 
As individuals and organisations concerned with health and safety, we believe that legislation on prostitution should be judged first of all by whether it helps sex workers, especially women and their families. We don?t think the Policing and Crime Bill now before parliament does that.
 
 
 
The harsher definition of persistent soliciting (twice over a period of three month), the forced ?rehabilitation? of those arrested, and the targeting of brothels for raids and closure, will drive prostitution further underground, increasing the vulnerability of those involved. Fear of arrest deters women from reporting violence or to access health or other services. Mothers, the majority of sex workers, worry about protecting their children from the stigma attached to criminalisation, and from the separation that may result from a prison sentence. A criminal record also prevents those who may want to leave prostitution from getting other jobs, even when they are qualified for them.
 
 
 
It is well established that working from premises is much safer than working on the street, as women can work collectively and support each other. Whatever our views on prostitution, we believe that the policing of rape and other violence should be prioritised over the policing of consenting sex.
 
 
 
The government agrees that most women involved in prostitution do so because of economic need, debt, homelessness, domestic violence ? Why then during a profound economic recession bring in legislation that will further criminalise women?
 
 
 
In May 2009 Royal College of Nursing Congress voted 93% in favour for up to four sex workers to be allowed to work together legally. Delegates voted through the measure believing that decriminalisation will remove the stigma of prostitution, enabling sex workers to access the health services that they need.
 
 
 
New Zealand successfully introduced decriminalisation six years ago on the basis that the health and safety of sex workers was paramount, and that to achieve it sex workers and their organisations had to be involved in the legislative process.
 
 
We urge the government to drop the new measures and look at New Zealand as the best way forward.

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The date and venue have been set for November’s Network Meeting.  Its on Monday 9th November.

If you are interested in coming then please do send me an email to escortbuddys@hotmail.com.  I will ask you for details so that I can verify who you are.

Hugs

Penny x x x

So you want to be an Escort?

October 19th, 2009

 woman shoes

You are considering becoming an Escort. Many things may have happened to bring you to this decision, but the majority of ladies do escort work as it can be financially rewarding.  Many ladies also enjoy the social aspect of it.  But if you think its easy then read on, there are many things you need to think about BEFORE you start working as an escort.  Ive listed some things for you to consider and to research, and ive  put them in no particular order and my list isn’t definitive.

*  You will need a separate mobile phone for your escort work.  Its best to have a separate phone and not just a different sim card.  This is the number that you will advertise when you are looking for work and if you choose to work for an agency, they will contact you on.  Its best to have a separate phone as there are times you will want to switch it off and not be contactable.

*  How will you operate?  Will you be an Independent escort who will set up your own website, online profiles and vet your clients and sort out your own security?  Will you work for an established good Agency that do all the admin for you and you just get told where and when to turn up?  Or will you decide you want the security of working in a Brothel where other ladies are usually there at the same time?

*  What is the law regarding the way you are choosing to work?  Lots about the UK law situation here:  http://www.sw5.info/morelaw.htm#massagelicencing

*   What services are you willing to offer and which ones do not appeal to you?  I always advise to only offer services you are comfortable with and that you would do in your own personal life.  Do not feel compromised or pushed into offering any type of services you are uncomfortable with, no matter what amount of money is on offer!

*  What will your cover story be?  Most Escorts work without others in their personal lives knowing.  You need a feasible cover story, that’s simple and believable.  Something that will cover you working different types of hours and going out smartly dressed.

*  Will you offer just an outcall service, or provide incalls as well?  How will you set up your personal security for the way you choose to work?

*  How will you ensure that you stay sexually healthy?

*  Once you have set yourself up you will need to think about how and when you advise HMRC that you are now working on a self employed basis so that you pay your tax and national insurance contributions.  You don’t have to tell them you are an Escort, therapist will do.

*  Do you think you can cope with seeing clients from many different walks of  life, nationality, sexual preferences, and who may not be your personal choice in looks and age?  You have to be prepared for this.

*  What are your unique selling points?  What is different about you from other ladies working in your area?

*  How will you cope emotionally with working as an Escort?

*  And most importantly have you read the articles  and discussion forum on http://www.saafe.info

These are just a few points to think about.  Still not put off?  Then please do more research in the above areas, and if  you have any questions please contact me.

Penny x

BBC Five Live on Scam Agencies

October 17th, 2009

Posted with permission from

www.saafe.info

http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=1848.0

Philip Kemp at the BBC has asked me to let you know that they’ll be doing a show this weekend on scam agencies. It’ll be on the Donal McIntyre show on Radio 5live at 8pm this Sunday. To those who were unfortunate enough to be scammed he has invited you to text or to call in with your stories. I’m sure their phones will be busy.

Beware the Scam Agencies!!!

October 14th, 2009

I’m being contacted quite a lot now from ladies who have fallen for these scam agencies.  These agencies ask for money up front to register with them, with the promise that you will soon make it back with bookings.  No bookings ever arise.

These are scam agencies.  Want to know how to recognise them.  The Saafe forum has some really good advice and discussions, please read:

http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=385.0

http://www.saafe.info/scam_agency.html

Stay safe

Hugs

Penny x x

Network Meetings In London

October 13th, 2009

networking

After a very successful day in London yesterday meeting two ladies, I have decided to set this up as monthly networking meeting.

If you are interested in meeting me in London then please do email me and I can give you my next date.  You may be a new lady who just wants some face to face support, or an experienced lady who would like to to meet up with others and have a coffee and a chat.

Due to my commitments I can only come up to London to facilitate network meetings once a month.  However, I can be available in Kent or West Sussex at other times.  Just send me an email and we can make some arrangements.

Stay safe.

Hugs

Penny x x

Criminalisation and Buddies

October 8th, 2009

Thank you Laura Lee for the following thought provoking article, especially written for us.

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That lovely creature Penny BBW of ample busoms and an even more ample heart got in touch with me and asked if I would pen an article for her Escort Buddy’s site. Anything for you Penny. :)

Given the current upsurge in discussion around paid sex and the implications for all parties concerned, it might be a good time to take stock of the changing role of the “Buddy”.

There are buddies at every level of the industry, whether they are older ladies at a parlour who take newbies under their wings, or escorts who support one and other or street workers who take a note of the registration number of cars their friends get into. The role they fulfil now is by and large one of practical advice and friendship, not to mention the safety aspect.

It is my belief ( and I’m not alone ) that if the industry is driven underground, by virtue of the client or the sex worker being criminalised then the role of the buddy will change irreparably. The focus will be very much geared towards keeping one and other away from detection and the authorities.

It is no coincidence that there is a high rate of violence against street workers and I would suggest that the reason for that is they are an easy target group. In many respects, they are alone, devoid of any monitoring or co-operation with law enforcement groups. If these women were working in licensed brothels, then they are automatically afforded the luxury of several buddies at once. I appreciate that the suggested system is not immune to abuse, there will be women who will insist on continuing to work the streets, but at least the option would be there. Thinking back to the recent Ipswich murders, if any of the women were offered a safe alternative to continue to ply their trade, then who’s to say how many lives could have been saved.

Today I met and had lunch with a new lady who has come to me via the buddy system and I feel an overwhelming sense of protectiveness towards her. She is older than me and probably more worldly wise but when it comes to the joys of escorting, utterly green. It will be my pleasure to guide her as much as I can, as I feel that is infinitely preferable to bailing her out of a police station at 2am.

Laura Lee

http://www.harlots-parlour.com/

Harlot’s Parlour‘ is a group blog of sex workers and allies to discuss sex, sexuality and sex workers rights and issues in the UK, Europe and beyond.

Well worth a read, and you may wish to comment and/or contribute.

Penny

This Warning has been reported by a London Escort called Selina and submitted here at her request:

 

I found these two emails in my inbox today. Anyone else got one of these?

Hello Selina, hope your ok, Being a ex Tax office inspector and immigration officer, i either give people huge tax bills or get them thrown out of the uk mostly for illegal work.,now not many no more than me about escorting industry so i wanted a change and have joined in with a few directorys as a consultant/advertising manager .and this is one of them i am involved with. please check out our escort directory which is for london based escorts only, prices start as low as £12.50p a month based on a years listing. We dont just advertise on the internet but in major papers and magazines too, unlike 99% of other escort directorys. even if you dont have a website ,we will make you a profile page for you at no extra cost!!. we hope you join our website as we do love very classy Ladies . We only have wild girls on our site thats why its called wild escorts, please click on our link to visit our website . http://www.wildescorts.co.uk

And the second one

Hi selina, Was disapointed didnt even get a reply, not very professional, to me just looks like your a big tax non payer lol, mention tax and people go quiet, last night i was busy doing my tax return before the deadline and was thinking why am i paying 40% tax for working more than 80 hours per week and escorts that are on massive money dont pay tax just steal off the state. i work for 14 escort directorys and only get a tiny 10% commision. as you know i used to be a former tax inspector and most escorts earn £3500 a week in london x 52 weeks at 40% current rate of tax that means the state missing out on lots of money that could be going to people who need hospital treatment and poor people, They say once a tax inspector always a tax inspector, well next week i let my old colleagues put you down on there investigation list, as dont know why me and the escort directorys etc i work for pay our tax and escorts pay nothing .Also if your not a uk citizen, most proberly be deported as well. bye from alan, http://www.wildescorts.co.uk

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