After a little break since our last collaboration, Capital online pharmacy viagra Punter and I have written another blog post. I really enjoy these collaborations as its very thought provoking to see both sides of the coin, so to speak. (Was going to say penny lol).
In this post, we decided to look at what both an Escort and a Punter looks for in each other, purely from our own points’ of view. We hope you will find it interesting!
What does an Escort look for in a client?
I can only speak for myself on this subject really. But I’m
sure most ladies will tell you something similar. For new clients the most important thing on first contact, whether it’s by phone or email, is respect. A nice polite conversation on where you found my details, asking a few questions (I won’t go into graphic details so don’t ask), and letting me know what kind of time you would like to spend with me. I will be listening to the words you use and the tone of your voice. If you are nice and friendly and respectful then there is every chance I will agree to see you. It’s very important to me that I feel comfortable in your company when we meet, if I feel that I won’t then I won’t agree to see you.
Payment within the first ten minutes of meeting is always appreciated, so that I can then relax and we can enjoy each other. You don’t want me to frisk you, or maybe you do. I don’t mind if its cash straight from your wallet or pocket, or in an envelope. I will always check it in front of you so that we both know that it is correct. Never ask for a discount as this turns me off completely. I prefer to give my regular guys more time, if I am able to, than a discount. If you can’t afford my fees then please go elsewhere.
Then when we meet I will be squeaky clean and looking well groomed for you, and I hope that you will be the same. I do offer shower facilities and a nice shared shower is lovely to get to know each other. I always have a variety of non-scented toiletries available, so that you don’t go away smelling all flowery with my products. Then during our time together you will be respectful of my boundaries as I will be with yours.
Passion. I adore my guys being passionate. Those who are like ‘star fish’ (that just lay there and don’t move but are obviously enjoying themselves) are not for me. If we are both interacting and having fun it will make for a much nicer sexy liaison.
There is also something I expect after you have left my company. I expect you to be discreet as I will be with you. I will never phone/text/email you unless you have invited me to do so. You won’t turn up without an appointment. You will also respect the boundaries involved in our working relationship, as that is what it is however much fun we might be having. I won’t date you, or fall in love with you. I might be in lust with you during our time together, and I don’t mind if you are too.
I do free cialis coupon have a personal life as you do. Please don’t ask me personal questions, as you won’t get a straight answer. If you become a regular and I feel comfortable with you and feel I can trust you I may share some personal information with you. But that has to be my choice.
Really I have only asked of you what I would expect you to ask of me in return. To be respectful and discreet. Pay the correct fee before I prompt you to. Be hygienic. Respect our relationship boundaries and don’t ask lots of personal questions. And being Passionate is a lovely added bonus.
What does a Punter look for in an Escort?
Like Penny’s article, this
is purely based on my own views. Some of my “criteria” may be very subjective, but I dare say some will resonate with many a Punter. Indeed, I imagine many of the things I look for will be what an Escort would desire in her clients too. That said, it is also as much a case of what I avoid, as it is what I look for!
I nearly always make my first contact by email. The response I receive will determine whether a meeting transpires or not.
I will always send a warm and friendly email, in which I will tell my prospective companion a bit about myself, as well as asking her a few questions too. I find it eternally frustrating when I receive a curt, cold “business only” response (assuming I get a reply at all!), which will be the end of my interest. A reply which shows a sincere interest in me as a person and not just as another booking will lead to a meeting.
Telephone manner is also important, although I place less prominence on this as I know most people prefer to keep matters brief, or might be nervous on the phone. I just listen to what a lady is saying and to her tone.
Personality is the main thing I look for in a booking, which is why I prefer to take my time over my initial contact. It helps me build a picture in my mind of the lady in question, as I disseminate her communication, what has been written and its intonation.
If it appears I am being very selective, it is for a simple reason: I am very selective as to whom I shall see! A meeting with a new companion is a big event for me, so I want to be absolutely sure it is right for both of us. Sadly, as I guess is true with others too, too many unsavoury experiences have educated me to be more discerning.
Attitude makes a huge difference in every walk of life. Certain attitudes are a hit with everyone and
equally, certain ones are a complete turn off! The only variance being, we may have different attitudes we like and dislike. For me, a warm, genuine, kind-spirited and open attitude is a winner with me every time, whereas a negative, unappreciative, confrontational or aggressive attitude will leave me cold.
When we meet, I am looking for someone with whom I can engage fully, on many levels, who I can have a decent conversation with, someone who takes a sincere interest in me as a person and generally makes an effort.
A booking without passion is not something I enjoy, to say the least! Indeed, it is the total antithesis of the type of meeting I desire.
I always seek plenty of passionate, deep French Kissing with a lady who is tactile and adventurous, as I am looking for new and memorable experiences, not something that is run-of-the-mill.
I always exhibit full respect and courtesy to my companions, so is it too much to ask for the same in return? I like an Escort who shows due deference to me as a person, who respects me and my privacy as much as I do hers and does not ask me masses of
personal questions, some of which will make me feel very uncomfortable.
I do not wish this to sound conceited, as I am most certainly not this type of person! However, when I visit a lady, it is nice to feel my visit is at least valued. Punters do have a choice as to who they choose to spend their time (and money) with, so it is nice to feel
Similarly, if I have made an effort to buy a special gift or to bring refreshments, it is pleasing to receive an acknowledgement afterwards and it is very disappointing when one is not afforded such a basic courtesy!
This heading sounds rather cold to me, but I have chosen it, as it highlights there are Escorts who offer a vastly superior service than others. In fact, the definition I like to apply to a truly professional Escort is when one is with such a lady it is like being with a good friend rather than being part of a business transaction!
Things which contribute to a professional meeting is a lady who is not a clock watcher, one who is well-organised and as much as possible, is on time. Often I, and I imagine other Punters too, have things to go on to, so a long delay can kill a meeting or make it rushed, whereas a meeting which runs smoothly is a delight!
I never pester ladies I know, but I do enjoy maintaining the connection once I have gone out of the door. Some ladies are most generous with their time, something I what are sildenafil tablets would never seek to abuse, and it is a real pleasure to hear from them between meetings.
Likewise, a lady who is approachable prior to a first meeting means the ice is broken and I feel at ease with her prior to the moment we first meet.
As Penny said, hygiene is important and I also value a lady taking time over her appearance, as it makes me feel like I was worth the effort.
Some of these principles, such as respect and discretion are shared values, whilst some are particular to either an Escort or a Punter. However, in the end, I am sure most of the important factors will boil down to simple, basic standards of etiquette and of being treated with decorum. I believe very strongly in treating others as I wish to be considered, so when my actions are reciprocated, it invariably makes cheap
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